>>85253Honestly, I can't really blame Fletcher. You can call him an asshole, you can say he was unreasonable, but he certainly wasn't a hack. Nobody was forced to be there. The people who were there, were there because they wanted to be there and got there by their own efforts. The people who couldn't bear his teaching methods would have been weeded out. The trombone player who didn't know whether he was in tune was out because he couldn't stand the pressure. Tanner, by a fluke, lost his notes and couldn't play without them. Connolly genuinely was better than Neiman for a brief moment there, but he had more time to practice. But at the end of the day, Fletcher's methods did work. He did produce a band that was the best among the competition.
There wasn't anything saying Neiman had to measure up to Connolly -- he wanted to be better. Neiman gets on a bus and it has a flat tire. That's life. But what does Neiman do? He tries to call a cab, but when it's clear it's not gonna make it he gets a rental car and speeds to make it to the recital. And then Neiman strolls in swearing because he doesn't get to play? Neiman was the one being unreasonable, not Fletcher. Fletcher didn't force him to get into a car accident to get his sticks to play, or force him to play even after the car accident. When Fletcher told Neiman he was out, I think he was right to do so. If Fletcher's methods were pushing Neiman to do better, Neiman was pushing himself even harder.
Upswingin was definitely malicious, but again... Neiman put himself into that position. He didn't have to talk with that lawyer to oust Fletcher from Shaffer.
Sean Casey died in a car accident. What did any of that have to do with Neiman? He could have walked away.
>>85257Honestly, considering my own life for a moment, the things that I have worked on, that I've pushed myself beyond my limits, and made me feel miserable? Those are some of the things I have been most proud of to have accomplished in my life. It's as
>>85258 says. It should be up to the individual whether they think it's more important to be successful at the cost of their personal life or not. In Neiman's case, he wanted that. Maybe he does die by 30, but I don't think you could consider him a failure. He would have done what he wanted to do, even if it meant burning up his life to get where he wanted to be, even for a brief moment.